There is an easy thing that men can do to raise their confront on approaching women and meeting women.
Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any scenario, it implies that you are approaching this situation on too high a gradient. Instead of trying to escape from the scenario, lower the gradient.
What are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. If you try to go to the top level of the ladder on your first step, it's going to be extremely hard to accomplish, and you may fail. If you keep trying it over and over you will start building up a complex about faltering, and soon not try any longer.
By trying to skip up five or six steps on your first try, it will also be scary -- certainly not unattainable but scary. And the possibility is that if you have no experience leaping that high you will not be successful .
The right approach is to take the first step and then advance one-step at a time. It is the most suitable way to climb a step ladder.
While I was a young guy I would see a woman I was attracted to and thought I had to tell her just how much I liked her straight away. Well that was leaping up several steps on the ladder. I knew nothing about her.
The first step is a simple "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable just saying "Hi" to young ladies. Then as the next step when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, reply to the question, or comment on something which she has her attention on to continue the conversation. For example, if you are in a bookstore and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it worthwhile?
Talks develop naturally. Do not push it. Get to know her prior to deciding that you like her.
Needless to say, there is a whole lot more to it, however these are good basics to start with. If you use gradients eventually you will learn how to meet women.
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